frostfirega asked a good question in her
Word Press Blog: Where is Christmas? She noted that this year, all she had seen were frenzied shoppers, desperate for the Perfect Thing to make a Perfect Christmas. What she had not seen were lots of wishes for "Peace on Earth, Good Will Towards Men." And you know, now that she mentioned it, I think she's right. I haven't seen a lot of that, either here in SA and definitely not in Atlanta.
Eliminating the wish for peace and good will isn't really an appropriate response to cultural diversity, as nearly every major religion professes peace and some form of good will. I'm all for saying "Happy Holidays" -- especially in a neighborhood like mine, more people are likely to be preparing for Eid or, long range, Tet, than Christmas. In other sections of Atlanta, people are as likely to have finished celebrating Hanukkah earlier in the month as they are to be living in the Twelve Days of Christmas. Ironically, in genuinely multicultural neighborhoods nobody cares what you say--most people seem to be happy that someone else is celebrating something, and general good wishes for peace and good will seem appropriate for everyone. One newcomer to Atlanta, according to NPR, is Muslim, and celebrating Christmas just to share her joy of making it to the US with her neighbors. If only they would celebrate Eid with her ... THEN we'd be making progress to a peaceful world.
Instead, what I have seen waver between an emphasis on Christmas as a gift-giving, party-going, shoppingShoppingSHOPPING season, and aggressively religious greetings. I've heard several snarled, emphasized, almost shouted "Merry CHRISTMAS!!" responses to folks who say "Happy Holidays." To at least one I interjected sweetly that I didn't think the original well wisher had wanted to assume that the other person celebrated Hanukkah. The clerk just looked blank. After all, I added, didn't Jesus wish peace and love to humankind, not just American Christians? He didn't wish them to people who are making WAR ON CHRISTMAS! the clerk replied.
I gave up. I don't like living in a war zone when one truly doesn't exist. I went back to celebrating my holiday, happily, and being pleased that many other people had holidays to celebrate, too, and left the clerk in her state of war.
Charles de Lint has pointed out that as a culture we find it easier to concentrate on the terrible side of the magical and mystical--the vampires, the evil werewolves (Remus and Vivian and Blondin et al excluded), the dark forces in cities. But what grows is what we feed, which is what the Cherokee also say. So, therefore, if we believe in (even just by reading about it) the dark, we have a responsibility to nourish ALL of it--the light, the wild, EVERYTHING. Another take on that: C. S. Lewis. Part of the joy now is knowing that suffering--death and loss--comes later. Turn that one around--there IS the darkness, so to make it bearable and to triumph through it, you should let yourself have the joy, too.
And one way of doing that is by looking at what other religions celebrate--PEACE--and reinforcing THAT in our thoughts, not just looking at what many religions (Christianity included) breed--fanaticism unto violence. We would be blind indeed to ignore the dark side of religious fanaticism, but,
pace De Lint, let's also take the good--peace to earth, good will towards humankind, ALL of us. Thoughts can be a powerhouse of energy, after all--what should we be thinking about and encouraging, violence and hatred or peace and goodwill?
Okay, enough confused long winded rambling.
Peace, love, and joy to ya'll, friends, no matter what you do or do not celebrate.